Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts

November 6, 2011

Columbine by Dave Cullen

How do you even begin to review a book like this one? To put your thoughts down in words about a book so real, so disturbing, and so well written? It's hard to figure out my own thoughts, let alone write them for you to read and analyze. But I'm going to try because this is a book that should be read and a story that should be understood.

Columbine by Dave Cullen is a non-fiction book that explains not only the how, and what happened during the Columbine High School shootings on April 20, 1999, but the why. It delves into the lives of not only the victims of the shooting but the shooters themselves, and I think that's why this book is so necessary. While the book is factual and based on years of research and interviews, it reads like fiction and at times you forget and are incredulous that this tragedy actually happened.

Cullen jumps around from the years leading up to the shooting, to the day of the shooting, to the days and years following the shooting. This type of writing structure can be dizzying and confusing in other books, but in Columbine it works in a way that allows Cullen to fit together all of pieces of this confusing puzzle. The other thing that I loved about this book was that it presented the evidence without assumptions and without placing or avoiding blame. When a tragedy occurs, people always want to know who's at fault. Cullen presents the facts in a way that they are really just that, facts. At no point in the book did I think, oh Cullen thinks that it's the fault of this person. Or that if this person did this, Columbine wouldn't have happened. Because really, you never know. No matter what anyone did, it still might've happened and I appreciate that he didn't dwell on the "what if," but rather focused on the reality.

In short, while difficult to read because of the disturbing nature of the subject, this book was one of the best I've read in a long time and I recommend it to anyone, again with the caveat that Cullen is transparent in his knowledge. He presents the facts and tells things like they are, which at times is tough to handle. But in the end, when tragedy occurs, people want to know why. And through Columbine, Dave Cullen helps readers understand why. 5 stars

Check out Sarah's thoughts on the book in her review from September 2010 here.

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July 1, 2011

The Playful and Powerful Warrior Within You by GJ Reynolds

The Playful and Powerful Warrior Within You is written by a man who has been to the rock bottom and back. He's been on the brink of suicide and crawled his way back to the top. This book shares his inspiring story as he found a way to find the playful and powerful warrior inside of himself as well as how you can find that warrior in yourself as well.

I chose to read this book because the title caught my eye. I've seen, read, and reviewed numerous self-help books but this was one of the first that put an emphasis on being playful in your lives. If you hadn't noticed already, my blogging name is Playful Professional and my personal blog is talenttoplay.blogspot.com. If it isn't obvious enough, I like to play. And being your best self by adding playfulness back into your life intrigued me because I 100% agree with that idea.

While I agree with the idea and think that the book had a lot of potential as a concept, I feel it fell flat in the structure. Each of the chapters focuses on one specific element to find the warrior within you - things like being authentic, forgiving yourself, and having fun and enjoying the journey along the way. All great ideas that I'm sure would be very helpful but the chapters were filled with so much text that rather than enjoying the journey, I got bored.

Pictures, quotes, practical applications would go a long way to help this book be not only more enjoyable to read but more useful for real life. Being given reasons for why you should be authentic are great but I want to know ideas and ways to be authentic rather than the false version of me that everyone expects. I will say that at the end of the chapter the author includes a couple of practical applications for each idea but because of that and the heavy amounts of text only in each chapter, I found myself wanting to skip to the end of each chapter.

So overall this was an okay book that could have been great. Great idea, poor execution. 3 stars.

I received a free copy of this book to review.

April 21, 2011

Ghellow Road by T.H. Waters

"Tomorrow could bring a brand new day and a fresh new start. But Mom would never see it like that. Instead she would move through it just like she always had, just as she always would. Living the moments of her life as though she had no past...or future."

This is the life that Theresa lives. A life with a schizophrenic mother, a brother who hates her, and a father who leaves her with just a late night drive to remember him by. Written by T.H. Waters about her true unique childhood experience, Ghellow Road is a different coming of age story different than one I've eve read before. It follows Theresa's daily life for almost twenty years as she struggles to find herself without ever really having a place or a family to call her own. The only real consistent element in her life is her mother, who floats in and out of Theresa's life, just like the voices in her mother's head.

There is just something about this story and about Theresa in general that made me want to keep reading to find out what would happen next. Over and over again Theresa jumped over obstacles that would stop most people dead in their tracks. I love her strength and fighting personality and just kept hoping that she would finally end up with some sort of permanent happiness. This book was inspiring and hopeful when in all reality it had no reason to be. Recommended for anyone but especially for anyone who has dealt with someone with a mental illness.

September 18, 2010

In This Way I Was Saved by Brian DeLeeuw

I was provided with a copy of this novel for review purposes, but my opinions are entirely my own.

I was scared to read this book.  The description on the back cover coupled with a disturbing child-like drawing that was included with my copy of the novel left me feeling very uneasy and downright frightened to read it.  Nevertheless, I mustered up my courage and opened it up.  Surprisingly, I found I did not want to put it down.

In This Way I Was Saved is the story of Luke. Someone earning a psychology degree from an online accredited university would probably understand what is going on with Luke. Luke is a child who develops what I can only attempt to describe as an separate personality during a traumatic moment in his childhood.  This "other" begins to grow stronger and becomes an embodiment of the sinister, the carnal, and the dangerous side of Luke's psyche.  Eventually, this id-like character is banished to the recesses of Luke's mind, only to remain dormant until a time when he can return to fight for complete control over Luke's existence.

This psychological thriller really grabbed me from the get-go because of the narration style.  The reader "sees" the story through the eyes of Daniel, the alternate personality or entity that resides within Luke.  We experience Luke's successes, conflicts, failures, and horrors, but skewed by the lens of Daniel's narration.  The question of whether or not the narrator can be considered reliable is certainly debatable and he remains a mystery right up to the last page of this novel.  Nevertheless, we identify with Daniel and willingly join him on the journey into the dark recesses of Luke's (and his) mind.  The reader is constantly being challenged to determine what is real and what is imagined or if, in fact, there actually is a true reality for these characters.  DeLeeuw even provides us with a twist at the end that leaves us questioning whether we really ever had this book all figured out in the first place!

I found In This Way I Was Saved to be unique, intoxicating, and terrifying.  If you're looking for a book that will mess with your head in a similar fashion as Palahniuk's Fight Club, give this one a go.  It's delightfully twisted.

4 Stars!


April 2, 2010

Cardboard: A Woman Left for Dead by Fiona Place

When Fiona contacted me about reviewing Cardboard, I was a little hesitant because it covers such a sensitive subject - anorexia. As I'm sure we all have, I had a couple of friends during high school that struggled with eating disorders so I decided that I would give this book a chance.

It's been a long time since I've read a book that really put me into a life I've never known, into the shoes of someone whose path I've never traveled, and into a mind that I could both relate to and not understand at all. That's what Cardboard did for me. The book is written in what feels like stream of consciousness narrative from a woman who struggles with anorexia, which leads to other psychological and social disorders (e.g., afraid of employment, afraid of relationships with men). Parts of the narrative are written in paragraph form and other pieces are written in short chunks of what really feels like a random thought in the woman's mind. The different types of narrative mixed together perfectly matched what I imagined the main character's mind to be like. I love modern literature, and this fascinated me.

This is also one of those books that is both hard to read and hard to put down. I kept getting caught up in Lucy's almost recovery and then heartbroken as she continued to falter on that path. Even though it was fiction, the story felt very real, like it was written about someone in particular or from the author's own personal experiences. And even though I personally don't have an eating disorder or suffer from any other psychological disorders (that I know of), I could relate to Lucy's desire for control and her nervousness and fear when she sensed a loss of control. I probably wouldn't pick this book up to read again but I'm glad I read it in the first place because it was eye-opening, insightful, and definitely worth reading. 5 stars


January 26, 2010

The Moment Between by Nicole Baart

I saw The Moment Between by Nicole Baart as a recommended book on Amazon and I am pretty glad that I took the recommendation. Although the story was a little slow at times, I really enjoyed the book. Instead of trying to summarize it myself, I am going to just steal the synopsis from the back of the book because it was what drew me in.

"Abigail Bennett was completely in control of her life until tragedy pushed her to the brink of something she’d never experienced: obsession. Now, she’s given up everything she’s ever worked for to chase down the object of that obsession. His name is Tyler Kamp. As Abigail follows him across the border into Canada to a beautiful winery in British Columbia, her journey is awash in memories of family and childhood, especially those of her younger sister, Hailey. Dangerously beautiful yet indefinably needy, Hailey seemed to take all the risks Abigail avoided. Until now. But even as Abigail races into her future, her past continues to pull her back. Only when she is brought to the edge of her obsession will she be able to come to terms with the tragedy that ignited it. A breathtaking story about the emotional risks of relationships, The Moment Between explores the cost of regret, the desire for revenge, and the redemptive power of forgiveness."

It was an interesting look at the effect that mental illness has on an entire family. The story was intriguing and I thought it was well written. If you have a hard time getting through it at the beginning, keep reading, the story really is intriguing.

June 17, 2009

In the Wake of the Boatman, by Jonathan Scott Fuqua

I received this book in the mail recently to review, and all the marketing materials sent with it gave glowing reviews.

After reading all of that and the book jacket, I was deeply confused. Here is an excerpt:

In the Wake of the Boatman is a study of family dynamics and sexuality. The narrative concentrates on the life of Puttnum Douglas Steward, born during the middle of World War Two, and immediately considered better off dead than alive by his father. And so begins Puttnum's life. Spanning the next thirty three years, his is an existence of deep sorrow and humorous irony. A befuddled adolescent, Puttnum is a good, hardworking student, but an angry young man. In his junior year of high school, he is arrested for joy riding, an event which galvanizes his father's poor opinion of him. Nevertheless, two years later he is accepted into the University of Virginia on an ROTC scholarship. Cloistered away at school, he begins to detect something different about himself, culminating in a brief, unnerving fling with his annoying cadet commander. After college, in the weeks prior to officer's training school, he dons a dress and pantyhose for the first time, initiating a struggle to accept this unexpected and entirely unwanted facet of his personality. Initially horrified, Puttnum asks to see action in Vietnam, where he is determined to suppress his urge or terminate all problems. Instead, he returns to the states three years later, wounded and decorated and no less confused. Through fate or irony, he immediately becomes an American mole within a Russian spy ring. This event ultimately catapults him into the nation's conscience, where the media and the Army depict him as the prototypical American man. A flustered icon with a bizarre secret, Puttnum becomes the armed forces' token hero, its soul luminary in the Vietnam era. Racked by guilt and his father's death, his problems begin to boil, and he flees his life and celebrity in a final attempt to come to terms with himself. There are many characters throughout the book, all of whom make an impact, of some sort, on Puttnum's. His beautiful sister Mary, a psychologist, understands others better than she understands herself. Her husband, Chester (Survival) Darwin, is the archetypal Hemingway male and the logical person to secede her father as the dominant man in her life. He is the type to swallow tacks to illustrate his hardened nature. His mother, Helen, is a woman of extreme beauty and a weakness for the bottle. Well meaning but misguided, she is an alcoholic with an aristocratic lineage. More than anything, she desires to recapture her family's lost nobility, a state which she believes existed, momentarily, in the early years of her marriage. Puttnum's father, Carl, is a man confounded by the masculine stereotypes of his time. An annoying knee injury, suffered in childhood, keeps him from service during World War Two. A series of scarred ligaments and muscles cramps one of his legs whenever he experiences high pressure situations. Humiliated by the implications, Carl projects his anxieties onto his male child, and worries, throughout the years, that his boy will never stack up. As he gets older, however, he begins to perceive, in moments of introspection, that his behavior is the cause of their alienation.

Got that?

This most certainly was not a book that I would ever pick up on my own, but I did make an honest attempt to read it. Unfortunately, this book is not for me. I could not get past the first few chapters. I skimmed through the rest, and could not for the life of me figure out the point of the novel. And I most certainly did not gain any sympathy for the main character, Puttnum. I was left with the distinct impression "why should I give a crap about him??"

Oh, and another pet peeve. The names!!!! Where in the world did Mr. Fuqua come up with names such as Milton Pilterpuss? Bertrand Capote? Percy Dishbrower? Only the women seemed to have normal names...like his sister Mary and mother Helen.

Since I am still confused about the point of the novel, I am not sure what group of readers out there would enjoy reading this. If you ever wanted to get into the mind of a man confused about a homosexual encounter he had in his college career and is ashamed of his desire to dress in woman's clothing, this book is for you.

I give this 0 stars because I can't wrap my mind around the point of the novel.

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